Having sex with a FTM?

Hi there. This is a really interesting question. I work within the LGBT community and with trans young people. It's going to be some time before he has his 'new addition' so don't put too much pressure on yourselves or over think it. It sounds like you two have a lot of love between you - so this is just another small step in your amazing journey. The best advice i could give is to let him lead the way - as he gradually becomes more comfortable things will get easier. It might just be that you need 'extra additions' to help you to climax or perhaps some different positions. This is something you could talk to his doctor about as a couple, or even look into some books about transMen. Remember sex is not just about penetration - so be prepared to try different things and continue with some of the things you already enjoy. After all, its not what lies between your legs that counts :o) The more honest you are the less awkward it will be. Best of luck to you both